| Americans Have Anxious Love of Flattery |
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| Written by Froma Harrop / Creators Syndicate / | |
| Sunday, 25 November 2007 | |
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Syndicated columnist Froma Harrop asks why Americans show so much anxiety over criticism of others.
PROVIDENCE, R.I. — Not many
Americans follow women’s bridge — or that used to be the case. A spotlight of
anger has fallen on the U.S. winners of a recent bridge tournament in Shanghai,
China. Their “crime”? At an awards dinner, a team member held up a hand-scribbled
sign reading, “We did not vote for Bush.”
Bridge fans sent e-mails accusing the women of “treason” and
“sedition.” The U.S. Bridge Federation proposed several punishments, including
200 hours of community service and expulsion from next year’s World Bridge
Olympiad in Beijing.
More than 160 years ago, the astute French observer of the
American character Alexis de Toqueville wrote: “The Americans, in their
intercourse with strangers, appear impatient of the smallest censure and
insatiable of praise. ... They unceasingly harass you to extort praise, and if
you resist their entreaties they fall to praising themselves.”
The spectacle of an American daughter rapping her president
in a foreign venue must have seemed sharper than a serpent’s tooth to the type
de Toqueville described (shades of the flap over the Dixie Chicks’ swipe at
Bush before a London audience in 2003).
That the bridge players were not criticizing their country,
but a politician; that they did it in a lighthearted way; that they sang the national anthem and waved little American
flags — none of this calmed those who took mortal offense at that toothpick of
critique.
As a matter of taste, I’d prefer that American competitors
not make political statements at awards ceremonies. Of course, they have the
right to say anything. But they should understand that there may be
consequences to president-bashing at international forums.
Flattering anything American, however, works wonders on the
U.S. public. French President Nicolas Sarkozy virtually exploded with praise in
his recent ode to America. Speaking before Congress, Sarkozy skimped on nothing
“to express his love of America, of its history, of its values, of its heroes,”
the newspaper Le Monde said.
Sarkozy paid tribute to Marilyn Monroe, John Wayne, Duke
Ellington and Ernest Hemingway. He called America “the greatest nation in the
world.”
Could you imagine President Bush saying that another country
was better in any way? Could you envision his telling French lawmakers that
Yves Montand, Bridget Bardot, Charles Aznavour and Andre Malraux inspired his
generation? No way, no how. Some right-wingers beat up John Kerry just for speaking French well.
France’s punditry took the super-sized kiss to America in
stride — perhaps seeing it as a useful application of child psychology. Our
natural thirst for approval has grown dire with the rising anti-Americanism
throughout the world. Sarkozy’s words were designed to comfort and encourage
the U.S. to work with France on common interests, among them, stopping Iran
from getting the bomb. Note that Sarkozy offered no help in Iraq. He’s not that
friendly.
There was no bitter mention of Rep. Roy Blunt’s invitation
to the White House dinner honoring Sarkozy. During the run-up to the Iraq war,
the Missouri Republican made an extraordinary slur against French honor. “Do
you know how many Frenchmen it takes to defend Paris?” he quipped. “It’s not
known. It’s never been tried.”
(The next time Blunt goes home, he ought to visit the
National World War I Museum in Kansas City, Mo. There, he’ll learn that France
lost 1.4 million soldiers in the conflict — and out of a population one-eighth
the size of ours today.)
Why do Americans demand so much praise and rage at any
criticism? De Toqueville had the answer: “It would seem as if, doubting their
own merit, they wished to have it constantly exhibited before their eyes.”
Don’t bite me for saying it, but this is something we
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I found a couple of subtly-phrased, anti-Bush, statements. Slickly done, but, still, ZING, ZING, ZING !!!
Then she tried to cover it up by saying essentially, that we shouldn't criticize.
Sorry Froma Frump! No praise for this one! Just back at ya, with more of the same style, Anti-Republican, criticism! But this time, more objectively.
What crap!